Why do we suffer from Premature Ejaculation?
As with many sexual dysfunctions, different degrees of premature ejaculation exist. Some men are so severely afflicted that they can’t last long enough to penetrate a woman for intercourse. But even a man who can last 15 minutes may fall under the umbrella of premature ejaculator if he wants to last 5 extra minutes and can’t do so. The time frame depends on the man.
Premature ejaculation can be extremely damaging, emotionally and physically in bed
Why do we suffer from Premature Ejaculation?
According to researchers, carnal arousal is a four phase process.
In the Excitement Phase, breathing deepens and erection begins.
In the Plateau Stage, erection becomes full and you feel highly aroused.
When arousal builds to a certain point, the next phase occurs, Orgasm with Ejaculation.
Then during the Resolution Phase, breathing returns to normal and erection subsides.
The key to ejaculatory control is to extend the Plateau Phase, to maintain arousal without triggering Orgasm and Ejaculation.
If you’re one of the many men who suffer from this dysfunction, don’t lose hope or start looking out for someone else to satisfy your partner. To start off, consult a psychiatrist or a doctor with whom you’re comfortable talking to. But along with that, here are a few suggestions to help you control your ejaculation.
The real cure for premature ejaculation is for you to be able to recognize the premonitory sensation —the feeling a man gets just before he reaches the point of no return, also called the moment of inevitability. Right before he reaches that point, if he so desires, he can cool the fires and not ejaculate. And if he wants to abandon his status as premature ejaculator, he must learn to identify this sensation.
The idea, then, is to learn how to slow down the process before you get too close to the edge. You can do this with a cooperative partner or, although it takes more effort and self-control, by yourself. The technique itself is very simple, but it involves some discipline, and that discipline’s not always so simple.
Why do we suffer from Premature Ejaculation?
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