“The Best Dating Advice I Ever Got” is a booklet of highlights selected by 3000 readers from 'The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman’s Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible', the best-reviewed dating book on Amazon.com (4.9/5.0 stars as of December 2011). It’s intended for smart, educated women who want to enjoy as much success and fulfillment in their love lives as they do in the rest of their lives.
The ebook comes with over $100-worth of downloadable bonuses, including instructional videos, meditation MP3s, a supplemental 60min lecture, and additional surprise bonuses that will make you richer, taller and sexier. In the meantime, here are two of the tips to get you started (to see the full list of 20 tips in the Table of Contents, click on 'Click to LOOK INSIDE' in the upper left corner of the page):
TIP #4 of 20: ALWAYS LEAVE HIM WANTING MORE
Dating is like a story. It has a beginning, middle and end. It’s got characters, cliffhangers and climaxes (if you’re lucky). So, like Sheherezade in the legend of 1001 Arabian Nights, you want to stop the story at a point that the King wants to know what happens next so badly that he comes back for more the next day.
This is called the art of always leaving him wanting more. It’s kissing him on the cheek so he’ll wonder what it’s like to make out with you. It’s wearing a provocative dress (and keeping it on) so he can’t stop wondering about what’s underneath. It means saying you find him interesting without necessarily revealing the true depth of your affection.
It’s called keeping him guessing a little bit. It just makes things more interesting.
Granted, it’s your party, too, so eventually you will want to taste some cake yourself. But at least in the initial stages of courtship, you should refrain from giving away the whole store. If you sleep with him immediately and tell him you’re crazy for him, what’s left for him to look forward to? That’s no fun. So keep your power by tantalizing him, but not to the point of making either of you miserable from deprivation. The result of too much delayed gratification is often just delay.
TIP #13 OF 20: GO FOR VICTOR, NOT LANCE OR BIFF.
There are two main characteristics you’re looking for in a guy. One is spine – his strength, decisiveness, masculine essence. The other is heart – his compassion, consideration and caring.
A guy with a lot of spine and no heart is a macho brute – Biff, as I like to call him. Most bad boys fall in this category, and although they may be a fun ride to start, they will cause you unlimited grief. A guy with a lot of heart but no spine is a sensitive new-age guy, or Lance. Most yuppie guys are Lances, stuck somewhere between trying to be chivalrous and acting tough. They will annoy you in the long run. And the guy who has both spine and heart is Victor. He is strong. He is compassionate. He’s a stud.
The Victor is rare, but he’s out there. Now that you know he exists, you know what to look for. He’s in control without being controlling, dominant without being domineering, sweet without being a pushover. He’s got direction and he’s got balance. And he knows how to take care of business, of himself, and of you. Settle for nothing less
1) The first thing I like about this book is that it was written by a man for women. I mean, Dr. Binazir is an educated, interesting man, and he sure knows what turns him on or off. He also used a lot of examples from his male friends, so you get a point of view of more than just one guy.
Read the book with an open mind and try some of the techniques, I'm telling you, it works.
Now, I know there are always going to be women who will protest at a slight suggestion of praising your guy and making him feel important, but what they don't realize is that they actually have all the power to seduce a guy or to turn him away. What's wrong with giving compliments? You're just being observant, that's all. No need to be self-absorbent, it's time to be genuinely interested in a person sitting across the table from you. After all, we date for the company, the good times, right? If you date out of fear of being alone or for an ego stroke, perhaps you need to work on improving your self esteem, and The Tao of Dating is great for that.
2) A lot of the advice is based on letters sent to Dr. Binazir by women, asking relationship questions that most of us can relate to. Questions like "how do I make him committed" and "how often should I call him without appearing needy". Dr. Ali is very good at answering these questions with lots of practical as well as general advice. Which brings me to
3) Practical as well as general advice.
He tells exactly what to do and what not to do on dates/phone/texts/etc. and explains why, based on examples and male psychology.
The general advice wraps around the idea of being a woman, which mean being powerful, beautiful and perfect JUST THE WAY YOU ARE. Isn't that great? You don't even have to do anything but discover that goddess in you!
You can read this book by itself, but I strongly recommend that you read The Tao of Dating as well, it will give you some very much needed pep talk and insight into who you really are as a woman and how to achieve your maximum potential.
The ebook comes with over $100-worth of downloadable bonuses, including instructional videos, meditation MP3s, a supplemental 60min lecture, and additional surprise bonuses that will make you richer, taller and sexier. In the meantime, here are two of the tips to get you started (to see the full list of 20 tips in the Table of Contents, click on 'Click to LOOK INSIDE' in the upper left corner of the page):
TIP #4 of 20: ALWAYS LEAVE HIM WANTING MORE
Dating is like a story. It has a beginning, middle and end. It’s got characters, cliffhangers and climaxes (if you’re lucky). So, like Sheherezade in the legend of 1001 Arabian Nights, you want to stop the story at a point that the King wants to know what happens next so badly that he comes back for more the next day.
This is called the art of always leaving him wanting more. It’s kissing him on the cheek so he’ll wonder what it’s like to make out with you. It’s wearing a provocative dress (and keeping it on) so he can’t stop wondering about what’s underneath. It means saying you find him interesting without necessarily revealing the true depth of your affection.
It’s called keeping him guessing a little bit. It just makes things more interesting.
Granted, it’s your party, too, so eventually you will want to taste some cake yourself. But at least in the initial stages of courtship, you should refrain from giving away the whole store. If you sleep with him immediately and tell him you’re crazy for him, what’s left for him to look forward to? That’s no fun. So keep your power by tantalizing him, but not to the point of making either of you miserable from deprivation. The result of too much delayed gratification is often just delay.
TIP #13 OF 20: GO FOR VICTOR, NOT LANCE OR BIFF.
There are two main characteristics you’re looking for in a guy. One is spine – his strength, decisiveness, masculine essence. The other is heart – his compassion, consideration and caring.
A guy with a lot of spine and no heart is a macho brute – Biff, as I like to call him. Most bad boys fall in this category, and although they may be a fun ride to start, they will cause you unlimited grief. A guy with a lot of heart but no spine is a sensitive new-age guy, or Lance. Most yuppie guys are Lances, stuck somewhere between trying to be chivalrous and acting tough. They will annoy you in the long run. And the guy who has both spine and heart is Victor. He is strong. He is compassionate. He’s a stud.
The Victor is rare, but he’s out there. Now that you know he exists, you know what to look for. He’s in control without being controlling, dominant without being domineering, sweet without being a pushover. He’s got direction and he’s got balance. And he knows how to take care of business, of himself, and of you. Settle for nothing less
great advice you can actually follow, May 22, 2013
This review is from: "Best Dating Advice I Ever Got": 3000 Women Pick Their Favorite Love Tips (Kindle Edition)
This book is a great addition to The Tao of Dating for Women and here is why.1) The first thing I like about this book is that it was written by a man for women. I mean, Dr. Binazir is an educated, interesting man, and he sure knows what turns him on or off. He also used a lot of examples from his male friends, so you get a point of view of more than just one guy.
Read the book with an open mind and try some of the techniques, I'm telling you, it works.
Now, I know there are always going to be women who will protest at a slight suggestion of praising your guy and making him feel important, but what they don't realize is that they actually have all the power to seduce a guy or to turn him away. What's wrong with giving compliments? You're just being observant, that's all. No need to be self-absorbent, it's time to be genuinely interested in a person sitting across the table from you. After all, we date for the company, the good times, right? If you date out of fear of being alone or for an ego stroke, perhaps you need to work on improving your self esteem, and The Tao of Dating is great for that.
2) A lot of the advice is based on letters sent to Dr. Binazir by women, asking relationship questions that most of us can relate to. Questions like "how do I make him committed" and "how often should I call him without appearing needy". Dr. Ali is very good at answering these questions with lots of practical as well as general advice. Which brings me to
3) Practical as well as general advice.
He tells exactly what to do and what not to do on dates/phone/texts/etc. and explains why, based on examples and male psychology.
The general advice wraps around the idea of being a woman, which mean being powerful, beautiful and perfect JUST THE WAY YOU ARE. Isn't that great? You don't even have to do anything but discover that goddess in you!
You can read this book by itself, but I strongly recommend that you read The Tao of Dating as well, it will give you some very much needed pep talk and insight into who you really are as a woman and how to achieve your maximum potential.
"Best Dating Advice I Ever Got": 3000 Women Pick Their Favorite Love Tips
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